Getting disowned for tattoos #diyhair #alternativefashion #strictparents #japan #culture #yakuza

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It didn’t help at all that my first two tattoos were a cherry blossom and koi fish which are both Yakuza vibe tattoos
They might’ve taken it better if I had gotten something more benign

This video isn’t to bash my parents. I love them both and honestly as a young adult I never understood why any of it mattered so much
I wanted to share with you guys part of my history with rebellion.
My dad doesn’t care as much anymore but my mom will still cry if I bring it up to her
Before you guys call me a bad kid, I had already been eagerly waiting to be 18 and go and get the tattoos and piercings I always wanted
They made the rule as I was leaving for college
I’d already broken the rule many times with piercings and I ruined Christmas over my bellyring which my mom forced me to take out… I almost immediate got it repierced since
I didn’t even live in the same city and only saw them on holidays
The level of upset they got was incomparable to when I got tattoos
I was tired of them using one thing or another to try to control me
And the tattoo I got AFTER I graduated I still have to hide from my mom
It’s a huge deal and I only this last year found the courage to stop hiding it on social media
It was actually really stressing me out having to wear high socks all the time to hide my ankle tattoo in case I took pictures even though I was living states away
I knew even after I graduated tattoos would be a huge deal and they would never give me their “permission”
I still have so much anxiety about getting piercings and tattoos because of how much my mom hates them and the stress of having to hide them.
I love her and at the end of the day, even if I will do what I want, I still want her to be able to look at me and love me the same
It took years for her to fully come around to my nose piercings haha

Sound is a cover of Ecruteak City from Pokemon Gold/Silver/Crystal by @ColinBeasley

#sorryitsmari #diyhair #japan #culture #tattoos #rules #hairbleach #strictparents